They're little people, and it's so much more fun. To ask for another handhold over the next few days? My wife says she wants another baby. Third: you and your wife being on different pages is difficult. 37 16 Being ones to look a gift horse in the mouth, we graciously accepted. The hatred for him has suddenly declined, and I’m the one who is now jealous. As a fan of Terry Pratchett I bought "Where's My Cow?" I don't love the kids any more than I always have, but I enjoy them a great deal more. Relationships 8 … To be a good father, you have to be present, be a good My wife loved the baby stage; for me it was nice....but that was it. There's still drudgery, but less of the relentless washing, cleaning, potty, baby stuff. Second: since you can't change hating it, just change the way you think about it. Your wife gets Sundays until 1pm to do whatever, wherever. Posts about how it’s the hardest job in the . The combo makes her almost a real human being, and not just a shitty bag of germs. All right, but I don't like being kept in the dark about all this. Earlier today someone posted about not being able to bond with her Baby, wouldn't feel anything if anything happened to him etc etc yet people were telling her oh it's ok you've just got a bit of pnd I didn't bond with my child till he was 7, not telling her to suck it up and be grateful she has a loving family. I don’t remember too much that they actually said, but I can remember the sun being really bright against the shiny wooden floor and getting distracted by it. And don’t rehash what annoyed you; It will just start arguments with your spouse and cause even more problems. Lots of parents, including mothers, adore their babies and toddlers but struggle immensely with the boredom and relentlessness. I miss the freedom of being able to go out, or on holidays, or to the cinema. so that we could read that together. Have you always felt like this, or is this new? We are both gamers , naptime and bedtime are usually spent catching up on video games .. obviously we don’t have as much time to sit there and BS , but the little bit we get helps us relax. The simple answer is: you can't make yourself stop hating it. But there are also many Judgey McJudge answers too. It’s not about you and what you want to do, it’s about your family and what’s best for them. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. I don't feel like myself any more and can't help but blame the boy. I knew, of course, that these would be things that we'd be able to do a lot less of when my wife and I became parents. I feel like I'm living a lie. Yes it,s mundane a lot of the time. This is up to you- put your mind to parenting and you'll find a way. ' I'm worried that someone will realise that it's not depression, it's just that I'm a selfish bastard who wants his old life back. This is long. It really does get easier the more self-sufficient they become. I was miserable. Cookies help us deliver our Services. I find it difficult to watch TV or play video games with my son at the moment. My father never knew the abuse I endured at the hands of my step-dad. I love my son (it might not sound like it, but I do) and I want to do better for him. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. I would also put myself down as someone who likes a lot of alone time. In other ways I find him incessantly demanding. You're right that I should speak to my wife. I've tried replacing them with activities I thought we'd both enjoy. Helping you mix the roux? I think if you were able to get back into your hobbies that you would feel better and more like your self. I love babies! "But it's all worth it!" Still do. Definitely don't add a second until/if you're ready. We have very supportive families I The fact that it will be a lot less time than it used to be should make it more enjoyable and not resentful.It's not a popular turning the phrase nowadays but it is time for you to man up and put her first. So much this. But I don’t always love being a mum. Nobody said being a good father was easy. Need help/adviceDad to a 2 y/o girl who is amazing and who I love very much but I just cannot seem to enjoy anything about being a dad, playing annoys/bores me and I feel everything I’m supposed to enjoy I just don’t. Good luck to you! I'm a MOM who hates it. Go for walks. Parenting Tips for Dads: Being an Engaged, Supportive & Loving Father Spend time with your child. Since my son was born I can count on one hand the number of times I've been. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. All totally understandable. Their is similar one with a mum saying how boaring parenting is. Loving parenting and being a good parent are 2 separate things. The endlessly looping videos of celebrities singing covers of their own songs on Sesame Street. And I SO appreciate this honesty, especially from other females and it’s refreshing to hear the same anxieties and concerns from dads POV. That's pretty standard. I feel like I need time away from people to recharge my batteries, and with a little toddler alone time is in short supply. Thank you so much for posting this (and you to OP) my hubby and I are currently deciding on kids. Things mums never say. Take them out as much as possible; on walks, to the park, feed the ducks. It breaks my heart to say it, but it's true. "But it's all worth it! You have to be in a mother sorority to make it and to have fun and support. Do some cooking and give them some safe utensils to fiddle with our a cupboard full of Tupperware for them to rearrange. Some people love the jobs they do, some don't. I remember the sheer relentlessness of life when I had 3 little ones. Quick Lane's experts have answered your car maintenance questions, Your questions on menopause have been answered by Dr Michelle Griffin, Talk widget showing discussions of the day & trending threads, Subscribe to Mumsnet emails direct to your inbox. He's just too young to appreciate what's going on so he just likes to mash the buttons on the TV remote, or the controller. I now dread days where she and my wife are home with me and just want to be on my own a lot now.I hate myself for feeling this way and feel so bad when I see other dads who seem a lot happier to be with their kids and I just can’t feel it.I hope i can get by this feeling but I’m not sure I can, just wondered if anyone else had had this and any tips that might help?Cheers in advance. You get Saturdays until 1pm to do whatever, wherever. I don’t enjoy the texture of mushy rice. My son is, in some ways, very independent. To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account. If you can each have set "me" time and activities to get away from your parenting lives. Yes, there are some great answers here! Time away really helps. But thank you for your comment, it really does reassure me that better times are ahead. It doesn’t last forever. That’s what happens when you choose to have kids, it becomes not just about you anymore. I am so sorry you’re going through this. Parenting is sheer unadulterated drudgery a lot of the time. Withdrawing from your family is a possible sign of depression. First: it's ok to hate the job of being a parent. It didn't last. But it's not. Set time aside for yourself to do what you enjoy. Hang in there, I swear there is light at the end of the tunnel! You say you adore her, so you are not a monster. Once they are potty trained, it's a game changer. And I can change my circumstances. But focus on disliking parenthood, not disliking your kid. With one, people are willing to take them them for a few hours, your spouse can take them for a while and then you can switch. I've been more ill, and more severely, in the last 2 years than I ever was in the 30 before. We had our second when our first was only twenty two months old. The thing that really gets me is the illness. When I visit friends who have them I am all over them. I don’t have a restraining order out, but my teenager does after being strangled multiple times. How a father spends his time reveals to his child what is important to … I have a loving husband, he’s an AMAZING dad, loves being a father, we have an amazing relationship, he’s the love of my life. I have a 28 month old and we decided early on that we weren’t going to stop being ourselves just because we were parents. They are getting their own interests. The same words, over and over. But I did expect to enjoy it a lot more than I have. Theater of the Mind Dreams have been described as dress rehearsals for real life, opportunities to gratify wishes, and a form of nocturnal therapy. Press J to jump to the feed. There seems to be a myth that enjoying being with small children is normal and certainly normal for mother's but for most it is brain numbingly boring. The challenges change, but the party where you lost yourself will slowly change too. I don't enjoy being a wife. 3. I'm looking forward to doing all the things you've listed. And that's fine. And i totally get it. But it's not. I worry too much about How others feel. You can still takes trips and be you . He'll be at friends' houses and sports practices. I think in some ways this is normal. From the early stages of pregnancy to when your teenagers are finally ready to leave the nest (even if they don't want to) we're here to help you through this crazy thing called parenting. BUT BABIES. Don’t get me wrong, I love my kids to death (the qualifier society makes all us mums say). It just grinds me down. Thank you for this. For me, being an introvert doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy going out or having friends or being the center of attention once in a while. I don't get much joy out of being with him, and we are constantly bickering with each other over things like cleaning, child rearing, our respective families, etc. I love the boy, I really do, but I just wish I could turn back the clock to before we started trying for a baby, before we had this needy, whiny, snotty bag of germs that's up all hours of the night and won't ever let me get any rest. This is a great post, thank you. They are totally dependent. He's 21 months old this week. I wish I had never gotten married. Okay, I hate xyz but I love these other things. You can get advice on potty training, talk about breastfeeding, discuss how to get your baby to sleep or ask if that one weird thing your kid does is normal. It will get better. Yup most kids activities are mind numbing. I should preface this by saying that I am lucky to have a son who is healthy, smart and, by all accounts, a completely normal toddler. I Feel Guilty To Admit It But I Don't Enjoy Being A Mother Nothing I dared imagine even comes close to how difficult and relentless looking after a baby has been. I just don't know how to start. But it’s all so couched in good-natured hilarity that, for those of us who find ourselves legitimately tearing up—angry, barricaded in the bathr… We need to get on the same page. The baby falls asleep for the night until the toddler has a tantrum and wakes him up, then both are crying. I love my son (it might not sound like it, but I do) and I want to do better for him. Being “turned on” and in social My time with him was very limited as a child. So what about the wife’s idea to start the baby phase all over again? And it's just as bad for women. Seat on the back of the bike? It's hard work, no one will deny that, and working together OP and his wife NEED to set aside some time for 'me'. If you hate it, you just do. You don't need to be perfect or love every minute but you do have to be a fucking father. This is page 1 of 1 (This thread has 15 messages.). Nobody is saying one or both parents don't need to be active in a child's life—research overwhelmingly shows that kids do better when they live with a mother and a father… It's a series of tasks and goals to complete. I don’t know why I never told him. This was THE PLAN. Guilty over my realization that, after more than 15 years spent parenting three children as a stay-at-home mom, I don't love being a parent as much as I thought I would. I'm not a baby/toddler mom. She needs to look after their son while OP gets maybe an hour or so to himself and vise versa. All said and done I will have changed diapers for five straight years. Look, you signed up for this, she is YOUR child and count yourself very lucky to have a loving family.Work out things you like doing: get her in a bike trailer and go cycling; walking in the park in puddles; outdoor games; going for a drive and an ice cream; silly board game? Of course it’s shit- not ever heard any man or women claim they LOVE parenting. I’m not about to add a third family into the mix that I don’t really have anything in common with and don’t enjoy being around. I don’t enjoy being single, says Angelina Jolie; is the Brad Pitt divorce moving ahead at all? It's just... exhausting. I hate it now. I'm single, 34, and live with my dad. Don’t let your in-laws ruin your life or your I have no memory of that -- no picture, anyway. That's like the biggest sin there is in proper society. It's a tough issue. Maybe you're just not a baby/toddler kind of guy. I used to enjoy going to the cinema. He finds it fun, but I find it frustrating. I do think though that we spend too much time trying to entertain our kids and would agree with the idea of getting them to join in with stuff you are doing but at their level. Here are 5 things to help you out of it This was nice, but I know I am not going to be a any better than I have been. I want to have a better relationship with him than I do with my own father. I would emphasize the 'me' time. But I want to change. Yes, there were fun moments and I loved then to bits but it was not' enjoyable' all the time. The baby goes down for a nap, but the toddler refuses to nap. But maybe that is the secret. We've I Don’t Like Being A Mother by Anonymous July 1, 2014 Updated August 17, 2017 SHARE I read posts all the time – on this site as well as others – about how tough motherhood is. I told her I don't think I've got it in me to have another one. My older two are 6 and almost 5 and cool as shit. There’s definitely been a rise in the “honest mom” genre—which often overlaps with the wine-swilling, benignly neglectful “bad mom” thing—with countless sarcastic Twitter accounts and social media personalities devoted to gallows humour over the harder, grosser, less joyful parts of parenting. So I’m the one who wrote the question, I wanted to give more details. I’m good with my own life. Life will never be the same, but it never is, no matter what you do. It is a job. I remember thinking that I knew why they find Neolithic people with skulls that evidence trepanning; after a few rainy days stuck in a cave with tiny children and no recourse to TV or digital distraction, I’d want to bore a hole in my own skull too. I have 2 kids, ages 2 and 4. He has a ten year old that we get on the weekends, that I met when he was seven so I haven’t had the experience of baby. Need help/advice Dad to a 2 y/o girl who is amazing and who I love very much but I just cannot seem to enjoy anything about being a dad, playing annoys/bores me and I feel everything I’m supposed to enjoy I just don’t. Making that distinction is important - I don't hate my son, I hate the circumstances. We all get there, where we don't want to parent anymore. I’m done with my studies, yet we can’t stop having sex. Maybe if she gives you another year, or she agrees that only one more kid and that's it. I love kids! Make sure you and your partner both have fair time alone, and then time when you are either 121 with your DC, or in family, and the time with DC and family try to concentrate on them. Our child is 3. They started to explain they had never meant to keep it from me; it wasn’t a deep, dark family secret or anything to be embarrassed about. 10 things no one tells you before you become a father Jargon, gore, uncontrollabe rages and the Channel Five morning schedules are just some of the things that men aren't … You don't hate HIM, you hate the job of taking care of him and you miss your old life. They are little sponges and learning machines at this age and they learn through social interaction, repetition and exploring physical and mental boundaries. You won't even see him when he's a teen. They can take care of themselves for the most part, I'm now just supervising. It only means that it’s not where I get the most value from my life. I'd go once a week or so. I know it's wrong, but I can't I just don't … It's okay to not like parenthood and to just want 1 kid. Dropping bulbs in the holes you have dug? I will agree with this. It's been brutal having two young kids but it does get easier. Once in a while though, it's simply because you don't love your partner anymore. I watch my kid play all kinds of complex make believe games, she says hilarious stuff when she does talk (she's speech delayed) and she poops in a toilet. I should be more up front about asking for time for my hobbies. I’m almost more sorry you asked Quorans about this. Figuring out whether you fell out of love with your partner isn't always easy. Raising Girls' by Steve Biddulph is an excellent read. Two, especially when the first is still a toddler, means no breaks. Playing is mind numbing, but kids can play themselves, they don't need to be constantly entertained. While other women claim to “have never felt better,” I’m begging my husband to mercy kill me with a pillow so I don’t have to endure one more date with my toilet. While I wouldn't say I "hate" being a parent, it has been pretty rough for me and I frequently long for the days of little to no responsibility where I just had myself and my wife to look after. Start by turning your phone off and putting it in a drawer when you are together.I'm guessing a lot of resentment may come from she is eating your time that you spent on yourself and your own enjoyment whether watching YouTube clips, Netflix or whatever your hobby is. 36 18 Being in awe of them, the young man followed their direction to a tee. I’m going to agree with fake it until you make it. Your post just goes to show how many judgemental people there are on this forum. I hate it. We have read it three times this morning. ", say the parents for whom it obviously comes naturally. Consensual incest between fathers and their daughters remains the least reported and perhaps the most taboo sort of GSA relationship. That freedom is so refreshing. Like tomorrow. He hates hugs and kisses (which kills me inside, because I just want to give him a cuddle and tell him I love him, and that I'm sorry, and that I want to be a better dad). I have a daughter and a son. I don't know if I was sexually abused by my father. Take care. It has to have that chutzpah; it has to resist my biting power just for a bit before disinte- grating. I went in to give it a good stir My body might disagree that I have no memory. There isn’t a recipe for what the father needs to do or what sorts of behaviour he needs to emulate,” says Lamb. I love my 2 year old more than I thought was ever possible, but man is it tough sometimes. The best advice I can give is to try and fully immerse yourself when you are playing with her , don't think about looking at your phone , don't concentrate on the clock , and try to get out and do different activities. And then they got to the talking / walking stage (3 and on) suddenly they were playing with me, going biking with me, following me around....and i loved it. How are you getting on @Shill100q?Did any of the pp advice work and are you bonding with your little one? However most of them are decent parents though. Generally little children want to be with you - the actual activity is less of an issue.And being with her is the non-negotiable part of being a parent. Be a little selfish but make sure your wife gets time too. Or even to just sit and watch a film at home, or play a video game or read a book without being interrupted. I love my child, but hate being a father. If you need to mend your bike, do it in the garden and keep an eye on them as they potter with watering can or small trowel etc. Relatives you don't enjoy being around (spouse, father, siblings, female) User Name Remember Me Password [] Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! I guess that's the bit that I'm waiting for - when we can do stuff together that we both enjoy. She is your hobby now and if you let yourself get into the joy of being a dad she will be the best most rewarding hobby you could ever have.Try not to feel resentful, you aren't alone, many parents sometimes feel like this. I don’t know exactly how long my depression lasted, or when it started or if I was simply facing a mid-life crisis. But I haven’t been able to bond very well well with my step son and I have been drifting apart from my family lately and it scares me. I'm right there with you. My husband is taking a week long trip to hike part of the Appalachian Trail this summer. It is torture. A marriage is about communication and compromise so it's just something you both have to try to work on. Like you said, you love your son. I want to have a better relationship with him than I do with my own father. With two, you're lucky if you can get a break from one, but you rarely get away from both. Remember your partner is going through the same thing and hasn’t got a magic hormone that makes it easy for her. Depression, anxiety, and even just boredom can make you think you fell out of love with them when you really didn't. was the mantra. And I never did. I'd love to sit and play Minecraft with him. There's some studies somewhere showing shorter periods of full attention are really important and may be better than days spent half-heartedly engaging whilst on phone or something.Things do improve when they get to about 5 years old, I've generally found. Parenthood is challenging, exhausting and expensive. I’m a wreck thinking about it. After what seemed like 10 minutes, all the water disappeared. To use this feature subscribe to Mumsnet Premium - get first access to new features see fewer ads, and support Mumsnet. I want to enjoy being a parent. He loves it. And even tho i hate it, i love my son and I'm gonna try to fake it until I make it for my son's sake. If you hate it so much go get a vasectomy now. I go back and forth constantly about “do I actually want kids or does my uterus?” It’s terrifying. Apart from being alone, what do you enjoy doing?How can you involve her in that? At that age being out can be interesting for them, just walking, go for walks with the busy and you can chat to your wife...it changes as they get older, maybe you can find things you are interested in to share, that could help. My ex plays the victim because he “lost his family” in the divorce and I won’t … It takes a LONG time at first, because those first 3 years are really the longest and hardest. We play minecraft together, go biking together, read books... and I'm the kind of guy who loves a lot of solitary time. My wife suggested that I was suffering from depression, so I've referred myself to a service called Time to Talk. I end up getting so angry and disgusted with him and vice versa. I enjoy being alone with my children. Keith Pullman, who runs a marriage equality blog, has personally talked to over 20 GSA couples and notes that he’s only had a few father-daughter couples speak out, speculating that many of them fear that others will assume the daughter must have been … I know that's a long way off but it's coming. Everyone knows that parenting is hard. So make an appearance, paint on a smile, go home and forget about it. /r/Parenting is the place to discuss the ins and out as well as ups and downs of child-rearing. Fake it ‘til you make it.Lots of people probably do. While other women are celebrating their “bumps” (more like a collection of 12 pound bowling balls strapped to my midsection), I’m cursing that damn thing for making turning over in bed a 3 day venture. No matter what age your child is or how many children you have, you have to know that a father's work is never done. My husband (father to the youngest) treats me well, but he must feel like such an outsider. OP, hang in there. *shrug* I’m thorough. So many people talk up the younger years like they're magical, and for some of us, they're just not. My husband wants more and i literally burst into tears thinking about it. I am so worried I’m not gonna bond with a baby, that I’ll resent them for making me fat and loosing my body (which is not even something I care about, I’m squishy and don’t mind) and I’ll hate not being able to sleep in. I think I now enjoy having sex with my father. Look, you signed up for this, she is YOUR child and count yourself very lucky to have a loving family.What a terrible response to someone struggling.I would suggest a visit to the GP. Remember this will fly by, even though it feels endless, and you are doing this for your child and not for you. Post continues Gluing bits of wood together?Maybe sometimes involving her in your world as well as taking a deep breath and diving into hers will strengthen the bond. Do you have any hobby that is just yours ? But eventually, he will feed himself, go to the bathroom by himself, dress, bathe and be in school most of the day. 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