momof3cc. It will take some time to get used to the idea, but the important thing is that your dad is still your dad, and he needs to know that nothing has changed. “And it’s the cruellest betrayal. Don't fix it if it ain't broke. The site may not work properly if you don't, If you do not update your browser, we suggest you visit, Press J to jump to the feed. "My girlfriend doesn't think I know out daughter isn't mine. Just woundering if anyone can give me some advice.Im 25 and I just found out that my dad is not my Biological dad.My mum has lied to me and only now the truth has come out.She wont even tell me who my real dad is.Im so upset about it,and what makes it worse is that I got two daughters that are now under the wrong surname :( x Encouragement please.. Her mom had an affair, and her story of coming to terms with her identity was compelling. Talk about your genes and their possible implications! I felt your deep sadness. Not only did she find out her family doctor was her real dad (the one who birthed not only her but also all of her own children) but turns out this family doctor was sleeping with a lot his patients. Happened to me when I was much younger (9) but found out through an annoying relative; it really affected me. Not My Dad is Jon Elfner, Terence Smith, Lara Elfner, Bill Villarreal, Ted Venegas, Krista Venegas, and Matt Epperson (and Mike Mandichak 1972-2016) No easy way of doing it. The same day I got the box in the mail, my saliva sample was back on its way to the test lab. Content on HealthUnlocked does not replace the relationship between you and doctors or other healthcare professionals nor the advice you receive from them. She and his dad … He married my mom when I was four. Little things like my whole family could go out in the sun and tan, and I was always getting burnt," she said. I'm... pushing him away with my constant low moods and I worry about the effect it has on my children. I knew that my mom was negtive and has always told me I was the same blood tpe as her. I do know she's not mine but I love my daughter so much, I could never say someone else is her father." My brother Duncan came over my house saying he needed to talk to me. " It was 1:03 in the morning when my world started to crash. Last year, my mom came home from work white in the face saying that my dad … I found out yesterday that my dad is really my grandfather. My sisters and I still saw our father, Mike, every other weekend. At 28 I found out my dad is not my biological father. But I don't feel it is my responsibility. Ask the judge!" It’s either she had a random hookup with a black man and tried to hide it, or she was raped or something terrible and didn’t want to talk about it. It was obvious but I was told some convincing lies. My dad isn't my biological father either, only I found out when I was eight. Quite often a question of paternity is more than just doubting whether the father is the biological father of a child. Xper 3 +1 y. a man once asked his mom the same question. I’d probably just say, “I took a 23andme test and it connected me to you, but not dad” and let her do the rest of the talking. Live your life to its fullest. I asked my mother about it and she became furious and slapped me for even asking. It’s filled with truths about how he wasn’t the greatest father but that he loves you and is so proud of you. He is more likely to tell you TO let your imagination run away with you! About 4 months after finding this out all these physical symptoms started. Press question mark to learn the rest of the keyboard shortcuts. Anyhow, thanks for the visit. She was married with children and my cousins think she might have had an affair and they chose to raise her as there own. It would have to be a phone/zoom call. Kenneth Avery on January 29, 2018: Peg: This hub is just what I needed. The hard thing is how dad's behaved since mum found out. Tend to your children, you lucky woman. I did it as a joke because I don't look a thing like him but it ended up not being a joke anymore. She didn't confront them about it but do whatever you feel like take your time. The man who I thought was my dad does not know he is not my dad. I threw back at my own daughter. Im not! How can u tell a person to not show fckn rage when they’ve just found out there dad ain’t really there’s?? I think time will change how you feel about them both. When Sam got her family DNA tests for the holidays, she had no idea it would completely change her life. She answered and I said ‘Hey … (Did dna test with other man) The worry I carry about with me about him finding out kills me and the guilt I feel about not telling him kills me. Many people simply resemble their biological mother. I wanted to honour and dedicate my life to making my mom and my dad proud, hoping that he’d still look over us and love us. My dad is 100% Czech. I lived my whole life thinking I'm the grandchild of Jewish holocaust survivors, and I'm not. She … Add Opinion. They were my best friends and I considered myself blessed to have them in my life. “Apparently they were sleeping together though and my mum was sleeping … I have children and cannot be a good mother to them anymore because of my physical symptoms. Here all of this time my mom told everyone she was raped and I was a product of that rape, but she told me something different. And even after you're 18, I'll still be your dad, so get used to it! I was not a daddy’s girl growing up, but as I grew to an adult, my dad and I have an awesome relationship. I'm just mad at my mother for putting us through this. I’m 19 years old, going to college, living at home, and pursuing my dream career. 6. Later on, Dad’s older sister told me that he had once told her: ‘If Becky finds out that she is not my real daughter, it doesn’t matter because I see her as my … Something important in your life happens: college graduation, marriage or a child. My aunt was in the same situation but found out her parents are her aunt and uncle her bio mom was the one she thought was her aunt. I uploaded my results to 2 other sites. "We're a family. Now I will be able to come to terms with the fact that I am, actually black. For example, I found out my dad was captain of his football team in high school. About 4 months after finding this out all these physical symptoms started. I am 15 years old, and this is driving me insane She replied that she had just found out her dad was not her biological father. I wished I could be there to give you a hug. I agree that it is not your responsibility and maybe not your right to do so. I have suspected for a while now that he is not my Bio Dad but had nothing to go on. Two hours is a good length for an initial meeting. At 28 I found out my dad is not my biological father. I can't get the picture of his body, still warm, out of my head. Never delay seeking advice or dialling emergency services because of something that you have read on HealthUnlocked. Your dad writes you a letter – a pretty big step for someone who never shows his emotions. A couple of days ago, I found out … So I saw my dad's account and some conversations and I am almost 100% he has cheated on my mom. So thank you . “If I leave, all three of us are screwed.” No one knows where our bio parents are or how we got to be with our dad since the papers aren't real. My story is the exact same except I have 5 younger siblings and my mom was raped. Mine were dealing with this for months before I knew for certain. Very similar story except her parents tried to pass off her told her darker skin and curly hair because she was Jewish. There's nothing to gain by spilling the beans, and lot to lose if you do....like your mother's life or well being. “Found out the little girl I was raising isn’t mine when I found my gf’s journal,” a man revealed on anonymous site Whisper. by Anonymous: reply 61: 05/04/2017: R58 You're a real moron if you can't see this is a troll post. I don’t think they fully realized the company could link you to other people by name and exact position on a family tree. We live far away from each other now. Several people … Just woundering if anyone can give me some advice.Im 25 and I just found out that my dad is not my Biological dad.My mum has lied to me and only now the truth has come out.She wont even tell me who my real dad is.Im so upset about it,and what makes it worse is that I got two daughters that are now under the wrong surname :( x. Both of my parents took the test a few years ago, and I’m not really sure what took me so long because I’ve been curious about my ethnicity my entire life. “Finally she said yes. Help me, I have bruises and am abused, and so is my mother. kaitlen I need to talk to you" we sit down and he continues " 17yeears ago I got a 15 year old girl pregnant, nine months later we had you. I am 18 years old now and recently I found out through a dna test that my father (who I have known as my father my whole life) is not my biological father. Arrange a meeting with your father. Maybe the bio dad was already pretty mixed and OP is only a quarter black so in that case I could see it as a possibility. For one stay-at-home dad, reading his girlfriend’s diary revealed a shocking secret; his daughter is not biologically his. But now we found out that not only is he not our bio dad, but he didn't even really adopt us either. It was still 1:03 in the morning when I picked up the phone to call my mom. 8. At 28 I found out my dad is not my biological father. couldn't bring him back. I grew up in a loving family and was very close to both my parents. Your dad writes you a letter – a pretty big step for someone who never shows his emotions. Have you seen the documentary little white lies? I'm just like my "dad" I grew up with though, I even became a professor at the same university he teaches at & in the same field. In addition, it’s possible to inherit a pair of recessive genes for features that neither biologi… Your physical features, and to some extent your personality traits, are a direct result of the DNA you’ve inherited from your parents. Look what guilt you'd be carrying if that happened. I'm not sure how to go about asking her who he is because other than her husband and me nobody else knows. I would suggest having a talk with your mom privately and discuss about the DNA you found out with a open mind (no anger or any negative feelings) and see how it goes. Found out my dad is not my biological father. It's very unexpected and upsetting. Martha Cliff; Pilar Mitchell; 30 … Plus he has cool friends like Emerson and Thoreau to inspire you when he's busy off doing something weird like trying to build Utopia. Just woundering if anyone can give … Of course, I don’t want any fighting or blaming but I think you do deserve to understand who your “dad” is, if you understand where I am coming from ? Hello, and I am going to shoot straight from the hip. Both of you are adults and I think that you deserve a honest answer. Sounds like your parents really did what was best for you and you know deep down while you are upset and disappointed now that they love you and you love them. I hope all goes well with you. They are all obviously very white, while I have medium tan skin, kinky curls, big dark brown eyes and thick lips. So I feel it's a luxury you can't afford...let go of it. He was a geneticist and he couldn't figure out a few missing things about himself and his dad. It took just 36 hours from the time I learned that my dad was not my biological father until I found the man who was. He'd not been paying her the maintenance and things like that, making life extremely difficult for her. And don’t they see the result too? Is there any way for me to know if he was in fact my father? I’m 38 years old. They had left home by the time I found out my true identity; the day my mother and stepfather whisked me away for a weekend to a remote cottage, to let me in on this very big secret. We have rules, here. I just found out that my biological dad is a random rapist, criminal, and drug dealer who raped my mom. When it comes to parents and parenting, it's pointless in an argument. Yeah, if I were you, just take your mom to a quite place like a park and just have a open discussion. Deep down I love him and I'm heartbroken. Has anyone experienced a sudden ‘feeling of doom’? The two men bear a passing resemblance, but I look just like the new guy. “He’s an amazing person!” would not come gushing out of my mouth. However, I have just discovered that he passed away recently. Found out that my father is not my biological father? After the news over the holidays, my dad offered to buy the $139 kits for me and my brother. I was raised thinking he was my biological father, but I’ve always looked different from everyone else in my immediate family. I suffered horrendous addiction and alcohol … I found out three weeks ago that my dad was not my bio-dad. After I finished what I needed to do with the DVD, I cried my eyes out in the shower so no one could hear or see. 1 0. It was the most gut-wrenching conversation I’ve ever had. This couldn’t wait to be sorted out. Sounds like she doesn’t have a good relationship with her dad, but both parents agreed to get tested? When my mother was sleeping he almost killed her, so I took his computer and threw it out the window. Look forward. This year I completed a test with Ancestry, as well as 23andMe. I feel like I have been lied to my whole life (I'm 26, my father doesn't know yet, he hasn't seen the results). I did it as a joke because I don't look a thing like him but it ended up not being a joke anymore. Your dad might not be swift when it comes to paying the bills or staying out of debt but he is a big fan of letting you spread your wings and experience life. On the outside cover it said, “Disclaimer: Do Not Open Unless You’re Me!” Being the curious soul that I am, I … She wasn't raped, but had an affair, and the guy involved was nearly … Found out my potassium was really low. Her mum initially balked at the question, feigning ignorance, but Katy asked her to be honest. About six months later, my husband found out that his mom had been cheating on his dad. The room started spinning. Needless to say I never asked or thought about it again. I asked my father what type he was an he told me he … It's wild what people will convince themselves of. It has been a horrible roller coaster. Not really looking for advice, just wanted to share my story and maybe hear similar ones. I've always had suspicions of this but it was never ever confirmed. I found out my dad wasn't my biological dad a couple of years ago. The man who I thought was my dad does not know he is not my dad. really suffered with anxiety!!! Submitted by purpledaisies on Fri, 09/27/2013 - 2:52am. The man who was in and out of my life was a narcissistic, impossible to satisfy asshole. “It truly feels as if someone has ripped my heart out. So what to do now? I’m not sure if I was most upset because I never expected my dad to be involved with such sin or that it seemed to be an indication of something I have feared for too long: that my dad … Give all this some time to process. have an interview this afternoon but I'm so down right now I don't know what to do. I decided to do this on my own. To find out the son I thought was my flesh and blood isn’t mine is terrible. I found out that I was conceived between my biological father’s first and second marriages. You're not getting out of this family, Princess." Found out my dad is not my biological father. My Dad's Not Happy About My Roblox Channel.. - Enjoy!Never miss a video by enabling ‘ALL’ Notifications! I can understand your anger and sadness. I found out at 15 that my father was not my birth father. Choose a neutral, relatively quiet location, such as a park bench or a calm café during daylight hours, where the two of you can speak to one another easily and express emotion. It's very unexpected and upsetting. Turns out her mom had an affair with the family doctor and never told a single soul. “I found out my dad is cheating on my mom with some woman on Facebook. About 18 months ago, I found out my dad had been cheating on my mom. So I just found out that my dad is not my dad. 469 likes. You say you feel guilty no matter if you tell or if you do not. Mom won't tell me the other guy's name. What should I do? He'd not been paying her the maintenance and things like that, making life extremely difficult for her. My twin … Today I found out through 23andme testing that my dad is not my biological dad. The fact that you aren't biologically related, and yet he has invested so much of his resources in you, must mean that he's really devoted to you. When my mom came home I told her, and for the past 3 months I have heard nothing but shouting. My "dad" left me when I was a baby. i just found out for sure my dad os not my dad. We lived a good lifestyle, but the income he was earning was enough that he was spending thousands of dollars a month chasing hedonistic highs. This doesn’t justify any of his behavior or attitudes towards me. Of course, this is not a sure-fire test. 7. We are not close but he has been in and out my life. Cookies help us deliver our Services. If you were the one to have the DNA done, I think you DO have a responsibility to step back and be quiet. My parents broke up just before my mum found out she was pregnant with me. Im 14 year old boy old and i am just now finding out who my real father is and it gets better! The most upsetting part about it was that he brought my brothers and I into that lifestyle by introducing us to drugs and gambling from a … I had to go on his computer to do some homework and found it. My brother go on 23andme and I was alerted to him. Elephants in the room often fade with time. I have been searching for my biological father for a long time and further to a lot of time and effort, I think I may have found him! So it should come as no surprise that these are often the first clues people recognize in cases of paternal misidentification. I can’t imagine the courage and strength he … No, haven’t heard of it. If you're part black, and your family is fully white, shouldn't this be very obvious? Most Helpful Girls. Ok, so earlier today i found out that my dad has an account on some site for adults to meet up, and have sex. It's up to you whether to meet with your father alone or ask someone else to come along. He then came up to me, shook my hand, and said, “Thank you for inspiring me to find my dad.” … I finally found my peace. Even I thought it just told you your genetic breakdown and maybe if you had a long lost cousin somewhere. My dad always treated me different (worse) than my sisters, and now my fears of not even being his are validated. Little things like my whole family could go out in the sun and tan, and I was always getting burnt," she said. I was told when I was about 14 years old by a cousin, that she heard my dad was not my biological dad. The hard thing is how dad's behaved since mum found out. “I called my mother and asked, ‘Is there any chance dad’s not my dad?” she explained. The man who I thought was my dad does not know he is not my dad. I found out my dad is cheating on my mum in similarly same way as the article I was updating his phone and we were previously talking about some pictures in his gallery so when he left me with the phone I intended to send the photos to myself but I found an array of photos am sure were taken with his camera and they were to say the list soul crashing disgusting and quite … Which seems awkward. See, my father (the father I knew) and I had a tough relationship as I grew up. I discovered recently after having my baby that I have O+ blood. My mom will freak when I confront her. About 4 months after finding this out all these physical symptoms started. You begin to become more upset at your mom for not being a better example to you and for playing out. Because I was worried that my dad would find out the same way I did, through the website, I spoke to him in person that same day. I found my half sister and real father today. My father has his own life struggles that I am choosing to leave out. He asked and found out that his mom was raped by 6 men. And under the circumstances, I don't wanna poke around and ask her too many questions. If they knew surprises they took the test? The roots of my anxiety|infidelity|pornography. After 38 years going through life believing my dad was my biological father, we found out he is not. At least it feels like she was playing you. It wasn't until I took a DNA test that I learned I am, in fact, 28% Japanese. Til my crazy aunt sent me a nasty message about it e even called me a whore. I am 18 years old now and recently I found out through a dna test that my father (who I have known as my father my whole life) is not my biological father. Then he states your birthday … I'm 30. Most families know things that are never discussed because the damage would undoable. i found out that my dad was not my biological too- its crazy and i was upset at first then realized it doesnt matter because a father is someone who donates the sperm and a dad is someone who raises and loves you- i even found out a few years ago and im 19 and can handle it so you will be fine. I found out my dad was another man when my brother bought me an ancestry test – and even my mum didn’t know the truth . How my husband and I each found out was indicative of just how different our parents are. I had just found out my dad wasn’t my dad. My … My family always knew there was a possibility, but never got a test done. I have no idea whether to confront my mother, because the situation could be traumatic for her as well. I never wanted to be a Rachel Dolezal type character, claiming blackness because I “pass” as a woman of color. It is a a lot to think … “Not destroyed but my 75 year old grandmother just found out her dad was not her real dad. I confronted my mom about it but she wouldn't tell me an honest story so I went to my grandma and aunt (my … I'm 30. Finding Out My Father Was Not My Biological Father @ 27. My life had all the stability his didn’t, but somehow we found … But my mom definitely lied to me about my “dad” being the only person she’s ever been with. By using our Services or clicking I agree, you agree to our use of cookies. I never knew that! But I don't feel it is my responsibility. I do feel I deserve the truth, but a part of me also feels as though these DNA results have already opened my eyes. My dad isn't my biological father either, only I found out when I was eight. Not My Dad. Discord: https://discord.gg/uKKF38c, Looks like you're using new Reddit on an old browser. And not all DNA tests are totally reliable..... You're old enough to keep a family together by not saying anything. My mother told me if he ever found out he would kill her. They would have to post their results though. You begin to tear up and really remember that your dad is just a person too and despite the fact that he’s a terrible husband, he’s a great dad. That's your luxury. But now everything has changed. I didn’t really believe it was possible that my dad wasn’t my father, but I indulged the spawned-by-aliens scenarios of my youth and asked my 90-year-old dad if he’d take a DNA test “just for fun.” Despite my inklings, I felt torpedoed when he turned out to be 97 percent … I look JUST LIKE him. A few months ago I found out my dad was having an affair with a woman at his work. I feel like I have been lied to my whole life (I'm 26, my father doesn't know yet, he hasn't seen the results). :), Sorry about this. I HAVE A LITTLE BROTHER THATS LOOKS 5 AND 2 SISTERS!!! They took their tests together years ago. I thought it strage that she would have told me that, I mean she worked in a Dr's office for a long time. Ive grew thinking i am an only child well guess what! The number of children whose biological father isn’t their social dad is probably far smaller than you’ve been led to believe, although the 30% figure seems to … Just this week my full siblings found out my mothers husband at the time is infact my bio dad, because unbeknownst to me, my half-sister did her 23andme and came up my full sibling. Why did your mom and dad agree to do the test when it was obvious what the results would be? And if she found out that I'd still wanna meet the dude, she'd flip. When Sam got her family DNA tests for the holidays, she had no idea it would completely change her life. I'm just mad at my mother for putting us through this. His results didn't look right, so I called him and up and he said "I was expecting your call". It will take some time to get used to the idea, but the important thing is that your dad is still your dad, and he needs to know that nothing has changed. Stay away from the word "real." But by focusing on it, you are causing yourself emotional problems and that prevents you from being a good mother. I am a rape baby. (Did dna test with other man) The worry I carry about with me about him finding out kills me and the guilt I feel about not telling him kills me. His life was a series of jobs, women and children he couldn’t hold onto, and he was broke and alone and sleeping on his brother’s couch when he first dialed my number. I wanted to be angry, if not only because my parents kept yet another secret — an even bigger one than my father coming out as gay 10 years ago — from me, but I mostly felt scared. "Oh, I'm your dad, alright. That's where your responsibility lies. But Im about to search for it. (Did dna test with other man) The worry I carry about with me about him finding out kills me and the guilt I feel about not telling him kills me. That's … Here I was at the top of the roller coaster and it started falling, my stomach ripped out and was left behind me. My mother only told me about my real father 4 months ago because i found out she was lying, i found im half Spanish and i met my bio father but im not allowed ever to talk about it to the dad that raised me and not to mention i went to Spain and feel this is unfair. But I got my results today, and on the family tree section I am connected to my mom, but not my dad is nowhere on the chart. This is ruining my life. THIS is what I came to reddit for. Hope you have an outlet to vent frustrations. Well my son rang and spoke to my mum today but didnt want to speak to me.. In fact, they didn’t even tell me. My father took drugs, gambled and saw prostitutes weekly, often several times a week. My family is entirely Scots-Irish white and I was born looking quite Asian and not really like any of them, so you'd think the story would be obvious, but everyone just kind of played along. Anxiety/Panic attacks.. out of ideas has anybody found a way to stop them? I even look like him. Later on, Dad’s older sister told me that he had once told her: ‘If Becky finds out that she is not my real daughter, it doesn’t matter because I see her as my own.’ It was a sweet revelation for a man of so few words. I... Now I'm on supplements for a week then I get my blood drawn again. Today I found out through 23andme testing that my dad is not my biological dad. I know it doesn't change our relationship, he will always be my Dad.. just leaves me feeling … I’ve always known my dad is not my biological father. Yea I don’t understand how she got both of her parents to test themselves yet they don’t know the results? I would always ask my mom who my real dad was because I look nothing like him and I don't really look too much like her but I know she's my mom for other obvious reasons. But I found a kindred spirit in my father, in perhaps the most unlikely of places. Dear Abby: I recently found a notebook of my mom’s. I’m just having a bit of an identity crisis. 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